Let there be no mistake, says Tina. My social life is just about non-existent. But then I call up this friend who I know is really busy, and she suggests we go out for dinner on Friday. Her husband is totally caught up with work at this time of the year and she is spending her evenings alone. And I am really surprised, because I have been thinking that I am the only person who isnt completely booked up at this time of the year. I am thinking that maybe if I make a few calls, I will find others who arent as busy as I thought. I have had an Epiphany, and Advent hasnt even started.